Need more clarification on options. Are we talking lifestyle BDSM or just the soft pop-culture versions of "well, I like to be the one to make the first move/sometimes I like being handcuffed" of top/bottom?
(I ask because the poll options seem to suggest more full-on BDSM kink, given as there's the option for people to say, "Eh, not for me," but a lot of comments seem to suggest people are answering it in the spirit of "do you prefer to be more aggressive or let others take the lead.")
Apparently my fiance are...oddities in that we equilibrate in our relationship? Or are we just left out of the polling as the control group? In any case, I find the whole sub/dom thing a totally confounding subject, so relatively happy to be left out of this one I guess.
Wish that there were a "male, not sexually active" and "female, not sexually active" option to select from. The best that I could do was the last one asking not to be asked about my sex life as a surrogate for this.
Fem/switch, but mostly because my boyfriend tends to be very submissive (or lazy... xD). I've always liked being dominated, having your pain/pleasure in the palms of someone else's hands--literally lol
BUT, I also enjoy being the one controlling the situation, toying with him until the breaking point, then being like LOL NOPE, backing off and forcing him to wait Ah fun times...
I think it's rather interesting how some of the results seem to match up. Male-sub and female-dom are both right together, male-dom and female-sub are likewise fairly close (though there's a wider gap, but mostly due to the male-female ratio here), and switch is roughly equal too, if you account for the male-female ratio again.
the link would be working if dA hadnt decided to randomly decide where the link ends and append the rest of the link behind the clickable [link]-bit.
what dA made resulted in "[link](BDSM)", with the clickable bit linking to a wikipedia page for "Switch_", which, of course, autoredirects to "Switch." what the link should have been was the wikipedia page called "Switch_(BDSM)"