Need more clarification on options. Are we talking lifestyle BDSM or just the soft pop-culture versions of "well, I like to be the one to make the first move/sometimes I like being handcuffed" of top/bottom?
(I ask because the poll options seem to suggest more full-on BDSM kink, given as there's the option for people to say, "Eh, not for me," but a lot of comments seem to suggest people are answering it in the spirit of "do you prefer to be more aggressive or let others take the lead.")
Apparently my fiance are...oddities in that we equilibrate in our relationship? Or are we just left out of the polling as the control group? In any case, I find the whole sub/dom thing a totally confounding subject, so relatively happy to be left out of this one I guess.